Hi, I’m DenverDM. Obviously, that’s not my real name. My wife and I moved to Denver about 6 years ago. We’re a monogamous couple with kids, a house, a company and a life. Our life doesn’t revolve around sex, and if you were to meet us in the street you probably wouldn’t think we have much of a sex life. You’d be wrong. I hear a lot of couples who are unhappy with their sex. And, I hear a lot of couples who get kind of crazy in bed, but don’t think others do, and they’re embarrassed of their sex lives. The purpose of this blog is to provide anecdotes of our sex life, to provide good advice for those who’s sex lives are lacking, and to provide comfort and resources to those who are like my wife and I.
A little bit about myself is probably a good idea. I got the name DenverDM from the city I’m in, which is important because most of my resources are local to Denver, and to the 2 initials in BDSM that apply to me. I’m a dominant masochist. Yes…I’m in charge, but I also like being hurt during sex. This causes a lot of confusion for people who normally associate masochism with being subordinate. “Take it bitch! *thwack*”. That sort of thing. It turns out, people don’t fit nicely into these sorts of definitions, even me. I bring this up because it’s entirely possible that you don’t fit nicely into these sorts of definitions. And that makes you….normal. Deal with it.
Anyway, in the coming weeks and months, I hope to post stories of how we got here and where we’re going. Life, marriage, sex, work, kids…they’re all journeys with the only end being the final one. I hope y’all will post comments and your own experiences.
